Caitlin, thanks for your article, it's very vulnerable and emotional. Thank you for your sharing and writing.

Can you please share (if you haven't) more about the myriad of reasons women reported pain during sex? Does that include women who were learning to relax their pelvis in the first few times, and from time to time when they want sex but was too anxious?

Because I had felt that, no matter how gentle he was. But I didn't feel I was being raped, and I don't think that can equate to not enjoying sex and not feeling we have a choice.

Looking forward to your further thoughts!

Midori x