Hey VC984, thanks so much.

Ze/hir! That’s very close to the TA concept in Chinese. I like that, I guess the problem is now we have a new set of pronouns for people to get used to. Do we get rid of the old ones so everyone uses ze/hir? Only by cancelling the old ones do people not get confused and obsessed again. In my opinion, introducing ourselves including our pronoun in a social setting is exactly an Over the top practise that emphasize rather than reduce the impact of gender.

If we can stick with no gender, then there’s no boundaries, then we can be whatever we want. Would you incline to agree?