I am so sorry this is what happened to you, and I wouldn't be able to speak for the lady in your experience.

Indeed, I was very excited! But I wouldn't say I was perving. I was aroused by the experience of being free, not so much by breasts.

Also, I'm suggesting the opposite is true. There are also many great feminist men out there, I don't know if you are one of them or not. This is further discussed under "True feminism" of the same article.